Is fellowship with your brothers and sisters in Christ important to you? On the day of Pentecost, when 3,000 souls were added to the church, we are told that “They were continually devoting themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer.” (Acts 2:42 NASB95) These souls were devoted to fellowship. It was important to them. But what is fellowship, exactly?
Fellowship in this verse is defined as a close association arising from mutual interests. Fellowship is about mutual involvement in one another’s lives. It is about close relationships. In one sense, we are automatically in fellowship with one another in the church because we are all in fellowship with God and with Jesus. Because we are in fellowship with God, we are automatically tied together as the family of God. In another sense, fellowship is something that must be nurtured and developed. Close relationships don’t happen automatically—they grow over time.
Are you devoted to fellowship? Are you building up your relationships with your spiritual family? If not, what is hindering you? Don’t we have many reasons to do so? Being devoted to fellowship will give you a real sense of community and of belonging. Isn’t that something that most everyone is searching for? It is something we can have among the Lord’s people! Being devoted to fellowship will allow you to be surrounded by people who love you, who care about you, and who have your best interest at heart. It will allow you to have people in your life on whom you can lean when times are hard. It will allow you to be a person on whom others can lean, too. Wouldn’t that give much purpose to your life?
We can have all of these blessings, but we have to work at it! Relationships are built over time by being together. One of the best and most obvious ways to grow in fellowship is to be devoted to assembling for worship. Adoration of our great God is the mutual interest that binds us together. Remembering the death of our Lord in the Supper, singing, praying, giving, and hearing the word of God are all things that bind us together. Sharing meals with one another (whether at church functions or in our homes) is another great way to build close relationships (see Acts 2:46).
These newly saved people in Acts 2 were not coerced into being devoted to fellowship. No, the desire for fellowship flowed freely from their hearts as they realized the great things that God had done, not only for themselves, but also for the other precious souls who responded to the gospel on that day. The truth of the gospel bound them together as one body, and they nurtured that fellowship. May we strive to do the same!
—Scott Colvin