Why Did Jesus Delay?

November 18, 2025

“Now Jesus loved Martha and her sister and Lazarus. So when He heard that he was sick, He then stayed two days longer in the place where He was” (John 11:5-6 NASB95).

Have you ever been in a very difficult situation and wondered, “Why hasn’t God helped me yet?” Have you ever thought, “If God loves me, why won’t He act?”  I believe the above verses can shed some light on these kinds of honest questions.  These words were written about the illness of Jesus’ beloved friend, Lazarus. When Lazarus became ill, his sisters, Mary and Martha, sent word to Jesus.  But when Jesus received the news, He waited for two days before leaving for Judea.  Why did Jesus delay?

One reason was because Jesus knew that He was going to raise Lazarus from the dead, and in raising Lazarus, both God and the Son would be glorified (John 11:4). This great miracle was also going to create faith in the disciples and in others who witnessed the miracle (John 11:15, 45). 

But there is another reason, related to the first, why Jesus delayed.  He waited because He loved Martha, Mary, and Lazarus.  Notice the flow of the verses:  Jesus loved them, so (or therefore) He stayed two days longer.  One might think the verse would read, “Jesus loved them, and so as soon as He heard about Lazarus, He left immediately to help.”  But such is not the case.  It was because of His love for them that He stayed.  He stayed so that they could see the glory of God.  He stayed so that their faith could be built up in a profound way.

There is a deep lesson here for us:  Jesus’ love is demonstrated to us not by taking all our problems away, but by letting us see His glory in the midst of our problems.  Mary and Martha got to witness the glory of God in one of the darkest times of their lives, and it built their faith. What about you and me?  Is there anything Jesus could do that is more loving than letting us see His glory?

If you are going through difficulties in life, know that Jesus cares deeply for you.  He loves you.  Our pain deeply moves Him (John 11:33). Let us never doubt His great love for us, even when we’re wondering why He has delayed. It may be that, in times of difficulty, He is helping us to see His glory more clearly. May God help us to see it!

—Scott Colvin

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God as Your Teacher

May 20, 2025

In Psalm 25, David makes a plea to God, asking Him to be his teacher.  “Make me know Your ways, O Lord; Teach me Your paths. Lead me in Your truth and teach me, For You are the God of my salvation; For You I wait all the day.” (Psalm 25:4–5 NASB95) Have you ever asked God to be your teacher?  I’m convinced that God will be pleased to hear this prayer from us and to answer it.  But who is it that the Lord will teach? 

God will teach those who wait for Him.  To wait on God is to rely on Him.  It is to set your hope on Him and expect that He will answer you.  God is looking at us to see if we trust Him and Him alone.  He is pleased to help those who wait on Him.

Who will God teach?  It is the one who is humble. “He leads the humble in justice, And He teaches the humble His way.” (Psalm 25:9, NASB95) In order to be taught, we must be teachable.  This is the essence of humility—being teachable.  The humble person does not think too highly of themselves or their own knowledge, and therefore they are ready and willing to receive wisdom from God.  If we begin to believe that we have arrived or that we already know everything, we should not expect to receive any additional insight from God.  But God is pleased to teach the humble in His way.

Who will God teach?  It is the one who fears Him.  “Who is the man who fears the Lord? He will instruct him in the way he should choose.” (Psalm 25:12 NASB95) The person who fears the Lord stands in awe of who He is.  They recognize His power, His wisdom, and His holiness.  The one who fears the Lord will be diligent to stay away from the path of sin because they have a healthy dread of displeasing Him.  The one who fears the Lord opens the word of God and trembles at what he reads.  It is this person that God will instruct in the way he should choose. 

Have you asked God to be your teacher?  Think of the wonderful blessings that will be ours if God Himself teaches us His paths and makes us to know His ways.  Let us ask God to teach us and let us also prepare our hearts to receive His teaching.

—Scott Colvin

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